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Saturday May 25, 2013
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MySpace.com Minors Restricted?
I've read a lot of these comments by many different people and I've come to the conclusion of one, people don't think before they decide to type and two, some people can't accept the responsibilities of their own actions. I know someone who is listed on the registry who is indeed really not a sex offender. She has never had a prior record, doesn't carry herself as being a sex offender, worked, in school, and has supporting parents and family members. If you asked her friends do they really think she is a sex offender they will tell you no, not her. She just doesn't have a spirit of being a sex offender. She got lied to on myspace from someone. The person said they was 18 and she was 19. They met and there's nothing wrong with meeting people offline or off chatlines what makes all this so called "crime" come about is when people LIE about who they really are. But back to my friend. This young lady life has really been affected because someone really lied about their age to her. If she wouldn't have gotten lied to she would not even be on the registry. She didn't even really know about the registry or pay attention to the name sex offender. She is a very strong young woman because she is in the process of fighting for those who are on the sex offender registry who really aren't sex offenders. I think if parents educate their kids more about things like this and have more control of their kids a lot of this mess you see on the tv or internet wouldn't be up there. Let's take the case with the chick from Florida who got 2 men locked up... That shows you that everyone on the sex offender registry is really not sex offenders. I know if these guys knew that girl age then they wouldn't have met her. How many parents can really say they know EVERYTHING their child is involved in? You see young kids telling you they lie about their age and play with people emotions and feelings by playing someone they really aren't. So it happens. So what are the parents going to do to make sure their kids arent doing this? People need to stop critizing everyone and think about theirselves. Sex offender is a broad name and I know for a fact everyone on that registry aren't really sex offenders. I do know their are sex offenders and they should be watched and punished but their are also others who get trapped by predators who lie about their age. The females who are out here lying about their age should be punished and also their parents because they wouldnt have had the chance to lie if their parents had control over them. I read your post and must agree that everyone should not be labeled. There needs to be a distinction. My 20 year old son was approached by a female with a fake id saying she was 18. Took him to her hotel room had sex with him. Because of Delaware's and the law of the world "Ignorance of one's age does not constitute a defense" he is now a registered sex offender because she was 15 not 16. He has loss jobs, he can not go back to college we have been ostracized from communities and forced to move because of the 1000 feet rule. This is not fair. Especially when his home of record, which is NC, states that this would not have been a registrably offense. Because there was not 6 or more years between the ages. Something must be done. cgrD64 qewopmaedvpw, [url=http://ogfcygjeqvpm.com/]ogfcygjeqvpm[/url], [link=http://xlwuqvohqpzi.com/]xlwuqvohqpzi[/link], http://rbtxoifccgnx.com/ This is indeed a grave danger given birth by the technology. Many people have been victimized from social networking sites, and Myspace.com is also one of them. This is really sad that people use the freedom of technologies for wrong purposes instead of using for good and beneficial purpose. We should be more cautious about our kids about using these kind of social networking site. I am 16 years old and I too have a MySpace........and i am fully aware of what i do and say there. Myspace gives you the option of accepting a friend request, so if someone you don't know wants to be your friend, THEN SAY NO! you don't have to be friends with the entire world! I agree with the people that say some girls WANT older men to be attracted to them. It makes them feel as if they're so good that NO ONE can resist them, not even older men. I believe girls like these need to see a counselor regarding self-esteem issues. If they feel they need to have sexual pervets stalking them in order to feel good about themselves, then it's THEIR fault if something goes wrong. I am a girl too and i know perfectly well what i'm risking myself to by having a myspace account. And so does everyone else. Nobody is FORCED to have a myspace account or to be friends with people they don't know (who just might be sex offenders). for example, if some random guy were to send me a friend request, by accepting it, i know that i am risking having my photos posted on the internet, i am risking getting nastly messages from this user, i am risking everything i have.........and if i decide to accept the friend request despite the risks mentioned above, then if such things would happpen, it would be entirely my fault and responsibility, BECAUSE I RISKED IT. Everything you do, every decision you make, has its risks and consequences..........and i think it's about time we, as teenage myspace users, start realizing that. To some degree I agree with you. But the one FACT that everyone here is missing, even the top dogs at MySpace and Facebook are missing is that IT DOES NOT TAKE A CURRENTLY REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER TO COMMIT A SEX CRIME. Even the people who are currently on the sex offender registry had a time in their lives when they have NO CRIMINAL RECORD. Point being: YOU NEVER KNOW WHO IS GOING TO COMMIT A SEX CRIME AGAINST A MINOR OR AN ADULT. So...that being said...how about a law suit that shuts down ALL social networking sites so that we can stop potential new sex offenses from happening? If a person with a sex offense (of any kind) cannot utilize the internet in this modern era of social sites to keep in touch with their friends and loved ones, then NO ONE ELSE SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO EITHER. Let's just take away EVERYONE'S constitutional rights in this FREE country. wow,ive seen some stupid ideas before but this one takes the cake. i mean,really??? why punish the innocent because some guy or woman cant get a woman or guy of legal age? punish the offenders,not everyone else. also,its not always the adults fault. there are teens that lie about their age just so they can get the person in trouble. heres my oppinion. if a girl lies to a guy and says shes...i dont know,18 lets say,and she has sex with someone whos 18 or over,then how can the guy be in trouble? i think the girl should be in trouble in that case cause she lied and said shes older than she actually was. let me say something about the people who had no record and then all of a sudden had a record: did you ever think that some of these ppl didnt have a record before because they didnt want a minor? some of these ppl may have been tricked by an underage,and now they are paying for it and the underage is off scott free for ruining an innocent life. now im not saying all of the ppl are innocent but,i do believe that some of them may be. most of them probably arent though. I have a 16 year old daughter who just started having sex with her 17 year old boyfriend. I have a keylogger on her computer which is why I know this. I have tried to get the text of her text messages and cannot without a court order. I think there should be more laws giving parents better access to their child's cellphone messages, myspace, facebook and whatever other sites there are. I know my daughter has several profiles besides the one where I am on her "friend" list. Kids will always find ways to sneak around but at least give us a fighting chance to know what is going on and who they are communicating with. If all their "chats" and IM's went to the parents computer and parents had to review and approve the content of their profiles maybe some of us would have a chance of preventing undesirable situations. yeah your a real piece of fucking shit. using keylogger to monitor your daughters conversations.eat a dick and die you herpe infested cunt, aids in the ass whore bag I'm sorry, but as a teen, that is WAY wrong of you. I understand that you want your daughter to be safe. All mothers are like that. But we need privacy. The more privacy you take away, the more kids will act out, without a doubt. If you want to keep your kids out of "undesirable situations", then maybe you should stop being so worried about what they may be doing wrong, and leave them alone a little. If you loosened up, a lot from the sounds of it, and made it to where your kids COULD talk to you, then I guarantee you, you would have barely a thing to worry about. Regardless of what the "statistics" are, I know for a fact that if parents would stop nagging on their kids and invading on their privacy so much, that they WOULDN'T get into so many bad situations, because they wouldn't have to hide so much FROM the parents. Just a thought there. "No in fact she does have a right to be worried and want control over her kids' internet behavior. Kids are becoming sexually active younger everyday. I know a girl that is fourteen years old and has all the privacy she wants, she has her own cell phone and access to a computer and she uses it to internet date adults. She is dating a a girl in California in her mid 20s. So not all teens do it to rebel against their parents. Some do it because they have all of that freedom. It's up to be parents to figure out which category their child(ren) fall under and act accordingly but I think it would be a good idea for parents to have some access to their kids' activities if they had reasonable belief they were doing something they shouldn't. The fourteen year old believes she is so in love with the girl in her 20s that she is willing to risk the other girl's freedom to date her. This is an example of what happens when kids are giving too much freedom and not supervised. But then again I also believe there shouldn't be a stereotype on all teens and it should be a case by case basis. My 15 year old sister tells me everything she does on the internet and on her cell phone and she is not misusing it or involved in anything she shouldn't be. So she shouldn't be monitored because other teens don't know how to handle theselves on the internet." First off I would like to start off by saying that all of these previous comments are correct in one way or another. I have been on both ends of this situation...I was once the one preyed upon...but I was also one of those girls who sneaks around in the chat rooms talking to as many guys as I could. Lets face it... girls are in it for attention and curiousity. They just want to know whats out there. They think that it is safe "oh that would never happen to me...I am smarter than those stupid girls who got sucked into the sex offenders vortex of manipulation". But the truth is that you are not smarter. You are as equally malleable and vulnerable as all those other kids out there. The sole fact that you are doing what you are doing goes to show just how stupid you are. But like I said , I was in that situation...I thought that I was safe. But the fact is that no one is safe on the internet, especially when you are purposely swimming in the shark-infested waters. I too have a myspace account...I too lied about my age because when I first got my account I was too young. I was one of those girls who, although my pictures were not of me half naked, they were more sexually suggestive than they should have been. It wasn't until I started getting all these horrifically disgusting messages from older men. It got so bad that everytime I logged on I would have 20-something messages from men ranging from their 30's to their 40's. Even after I took those photos off they didn't stop! From tthe time that I made my myspace (15) until about 5 months ago....I was being stalked on myspace by perverts. I would block them and they would just make a new account. When myspace finally made changes to their system and made it so that you could block an entire age group I was so relieved. I was basically scared out of my devious ways haha. I apologize, because this is defanitely not a laughing matter. But the truth is that when I look back on my past ...I wonder "what was wrong with me!". But like I stated earlier... kids do it for attention. But like most of the other people have stated previously, the fact that myspace is trying to make changes is good...but it isnt going to stop the sharks out there...the water is still not going to be safe to swim in. SO hey heres a solution.....If you are a boy or girl out there who is doing what I did....please stop. I know that it seems harmless right now..it seems fun...but it isn't. There will come a time when you are going to wonder what the heck you got yourself into...and I hope that by that time it isn't too late. Paulina I agree with you. I am almost sixteen and I have been going to chatrooms since I was about twelve. Of course, my parents didn't even allow me to have a myspace, but I did anyways. I went to chatrooms, like you said, for attention. I am really trying to stop, but it can seem fun. Until the people you're talking to won't leave you alone. I usually use a fake name and city and age. I always tell myself I won't ever go to a chatroom again, but when the opportunity presents itself.... I just get curious about what other people will say and it can seem kind of fun to lead them on if they are interested. But it's a very serious thing. I haven't been to a chatroom in a few months and I hope it stays that way. People might think that staying away from chatrooms is easy-peasy, but it's kind of like a drug or smoking. It's addicting. But, people don't realize the amount of trouble you can get into, not only physically, but emotionally. People might say offensive things, and also if anyone ever finds out about what you are doing it can be serious. You may think you are talking to a hot 20 year old, but in reality, he/she may be 90 years old!! You can find a picture of a good-looking person on the internet and upload it to you social network account and people will believe it's you. They will think they are talking to a hot, sweet, caring person, but they may not be. I know because I made a fake myspace account just to see what would happen. I deleted it about a week after because things got so out of hand. I couldn't believe that people thought the picture was real. But, that goes to show how gullible people can be. I used to think I was beautiful and special when hot guys would talk to me on the internet, but I found out looks can deceiving. Not everyone is as they appear to be. How did this generation get so out of hand? People are having sex as 10 years old or younger. It's a horrible thing. I made that mistake when I was thirteen and I regret it everyday. But, I thought I was "cool" because I did it. When I went back to school people called me a slut and made jokes about me, even my best friend. I lost my virginity and I thought I was going to lose my mind too. But anyways, my point is that you should be careful. You never know who a person actually is. -Please be safe, These young kids need to watch what they are saying on My Space. I was mortified when I was checking my nieces profile and found half naked photos. I told her to take them off. I think parents should be held responsible for their child's actions until they are 18 years of age. If a girl under the age of 17 gets pregnant, shouldn't the parent be charged with child abuse or neglect? I don't think that kids should be allowed to post personal info about themselves without parental consent. You can always tell how old these kids are because they usually have pictures of themselves and their "buds". i think its time that we quit blaming it all on the males! they are starting out as young as 12 yrs. old. They know what they are doing. How many guys go to prison for this and there life is ruined! iT'S STUPID,AND IT'S TIME FOR THE LAWS TO CHANGE.THESE girls are not stupid,and they know what they are doing. They hold all the cards,and can do what they want,and they love it!I sure would not want to be a man in today's world,because women have all the say. WORRIED! your right and even more so when there is no victim only acop pretending to be and talking as gross as the male but when you do not have the money to defend yourself my 21 nephew is facing 10 years and life long megans law if ur a mother or a father and ur child is Under age of 18 be in there Lifes know what they ARE DOING be there Person to look up to. dont let the unquestionable HAPPEN lifes to good to ither mess up or get messed up with the wrong ACTIONS !!! be there Be aware of their internet Profiles and Cell USAGE if u think there sexually active or in the PROCESS DENI the TEXT MESSAGING service and Pic/Messaging Only Allow phone calls to be used..... thanks for reading be in ur son or daughters life.... idc for the people who hate on this, if u love your kids and much as ytour mom n dad loved you back in like 1960's when internet and sexting wasnt a big issue as it is now, then parents of 2011 grasp grounds with ur teens and be proactive and know what is going down... CONCERNED is the key work.... Look it all depends on the parents and who they are some dont care some are strict some just dont bother cause they dont, this IS LIFE, Life is full of scum bags weather it be sex offenders, phedofiles criminals u name it, its out there the is the life and the plantet earth we live our daily lifes on.... idk what else more to say, ither take the advice and we a productive caring parent and make sure you KNOW 110% what ur teens are up to and how they feel about sex and stuff. and if u dont just be ready for the "UNKNOWN" You will never know untill its too late... be there for your teenagers.... with that said Night every one. Sincerly , A person who cares and lifes ment to be lived to the fullest not with drawbacks and set backs. I think it’s a pretty good move from MySpace. That way, there would be less profiles for online sexual predators to prey on. While it doesn’t provide a fool-proof plan (as you said, kids can easily change their age on MySpace), it’s a start. that many sex affenders is crazy. So basically you think that only people who have prior convictions of sexual offenses are the ones you need to worry about. Gee, I guess you are another brainwashed fool that doesnt believe in 'a first for everything'. It's funny how you agree a registered sex offender should be kicked off of MySpace yet when you watch Dateline NBC's "To Catch A Predator" what do you see? I'll tell you what I've seen: Preachers, Police officers, a guy who worked for the Dept of Homeland Security and even a DISTRICT ATTORNEY all getting caught for soliciting minors online. So...still wanna say it's ONLY the people ON the sex offender registry that you need to worry about? SHUT DOWN MYSPACE ANS SHUT UP! We have a 15-year old son who is dating a female older than he; we think she's 18 years old, but have yet to confirm her age. Our son met this girl in high school and continues to see her secretive. Evidence has proven that this girl has been in our house without our knowledge or permission and has had sex with our son. We talked to our son about this issue and he denies everything. We talked to our son about our concerns with him seeing an older girl and experiencing adult activities; again, he denies and doesn't want to talk about it. Only recently, our son's cell phone was taken from him for not following the rules of the house. We browsed through his cell phone directory, read many text messages, and found the most disturbing photos of our 15-year old son and this girl completely naked and having sex; she snapped the photos herself. We reported the incident to our family therapist, who in turn is required by law to mandatory report the incident to the authorities, which they did. If this girl is 18, we don't want to ruin her life with an arrest as a convicted felon; however, her illegal involvment with our son MUST stop, and if it continues, we'll then proceed with filing charges. If this girl is not 18, but rather 17, do we have any rights to protect our son against having sex at such a young age of 15? If you stop him from seeing this girl, what about the next? What about when the next one is 19, 20, of legal age and giving him alcohol? The bottom line is that YOU need to educate him about what he should and shouldn't be doing. About the dangers of alcohol, drugs, and unprotected sex. Ruining some girl's life for what children that age see as completely harmless is NOT the way to go. You have to remember that though you see her as 18 and thus an adult, an 18 year old is no more mature than they were at 17. She is still immature and she probably doesn't realize that what she's doing is really that harmful. To be honest, you need to not be scaring or threatening your son, but educating him. I still remember that age and the more your parents press things in the wrong way, the more you want to defy them. You need to talk the time to talk to him and make him understand. gettin in your sons life will make him misrable. Honestly, you have to make HIM understand, not punish her. One. Why does it seem as if the media and state legislature is saying that all teens act this way. There are smart people, smart people who do stupid things, ignorant people, naive people, and everyone else in between. They make it seem as if teen girls are being preyed upon. What about the ones that make myspaces to post half naked pictures of themselves or intentionally lie about their age to talk to older men. Two. You can lie about your age on myspace so this plan is faulty and already has a thousand holes in it. Three. The public websites about registered sex offenders and their myspaces were great ideas. Then again, they can lie about who they are too. I think it’s a pretty good move from MySpace. That way, there would be less profiles for online sexual predators to prey on. While it doesn’t provide a fool-proof plan (as you said, kids can easily change their age on MySpace), it’s a start. Parents need to wake up and stop demanding that everyone BUT them babysit their kids! However, what about all the twits that are oline looking for guys to flirt with, no one wants to go there huh? well, its happening. And will some of you stop using "textspeak", show some intelligence and TYPE words correctly. Kudos to the title heading "This Topic"!! Believe me people, these girls do exist. They lie about their age, dress far too provocitively and are out there soliciting older men. In the end this can ruin somebody's life completely. Now don't get me wrong, I too believe children should be protected from any kind of sicko who poses a threat to them, either online OR offline but lets go here with this person for a minute. What laws are out there protecting men from teens who are stalking the internet as well?? This kind of thing is happening every single day (without concenquences or repercussions) and can happen to ANYBODY using such sites as myspace, online dating, chats, etc. Bottom line, it all starts at home so know what your kids are doing. If us as parents aren't doing our job then who will, some law?? If you believe that then please open your eyes, turn on your listening ears and refer back to the top of this posting. Post new comment |
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Hi I'm 26 year old male from Illinois and when I was 24 I had sex with a 15 year old that I met on MySpace. Her profile said she was 18 years old. Well we got to talking and she said she thought I was hot.we talk for a few day. And I asked her if she drove and she said yes. Then I asks if she had sex before she said yes. And she only had 3 pic on her profile. And how I found her profile I was browseing on MySpace which u can only browse people 18 years old and up. And that's were I found her. Me met only 2 time and the second time we had sex. But before we meet the second time she sent a message on MySpace saying she was 15. But her profile says she 18 her pics look 18 she says she drive and she had sex and I found her in the browsing screen which is only 18 and up. Also two months before I had my trial we found a ad on Craigslist Ad with the 3 pics from her MySpace and she was looking for an older women Now.and she said she 18 and very mature for her age. But the big thing is she not 18 yet. Well after 2 year I just had my trial and was found guilty on 2 counts and I'm faceing 30 years. She lied on the stand and said stuff she never told the police. On the police report it says I told the cop I knew she was 15 which I never did. But right before the age its blacked out and looked liked it was changed. And she lied on the stand and said stuff she never told the police and said YES YOUR HONOR I LIED WHEN I WAS MAKING MY PORFILE WHICH WHEN I WAS ARRETED IT SAID SHE 101 YEARS OLD. AND THEN SHE SAYS SHE KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE CRAIGLIST AD. AND TOLD THE JUDGE ME AND ALL MY FRIENDS LIE ABOUR ARE AGE. So out of all the lies she said I was found guilty but my lawyer say he thinks the Jude made a mistake. And I'm going to fight this till I beat it. ILL GO TO THE NEWS AND PAPER ABOUT IT. THEY OFFER ME A PLEA TO ONE FELONY AND I SAID NO WHY BECAUSE IN THE SAME COURTHOUSE 3 MONTHS EARLY A TEACHER THAT HAD SEX WITH ONE OF HER STUDENT HAD 27 FELONY AND PLEAED TO 1 CLASS A MISDEMEANOR. SO SHE HAD TO KNOW HOW OLD HE WAS BECAUSE HE WAS ONE OF HER STUDENT. AT LEAST I DIDNT NOW. So now I just have to wait and see. WE WANT THE STATEMENTS THROW OUT BECAUSE THERE BLACKOUTS ON IT AND I NEVER SIGNED IT. AND BECAUSE SHE LIED ON THE STAND. So that's my life right now.