When I was 17 years old I was involved in a forced sexual relationship (cult-related) with a man 17 years my senior. We have a history of domestic violence, there were restraining orders; however, there were no charges filed for the sexual abuse. I became pregnant when I was seventeen, now he is bringing me to court for visitation. I don't think I should have to let my abuser see my child. He also has been convicted for domestic charges against me AND my child (assault with a dangerous weapon ) we both have been and continue to be abused by him (he just does it emotionally now) what can I do?

What you describe is not statutory rape. If the sexual relationship was NOT consensual but one of force and there has been abuse involved, this is rape and assault.

The situation you describe will be handled by two different legal systems. Rape and assault is handled through a "Criminal Justice” system by the District Attorney appointed in your jurisdiction. The child welfare and custody issues will be handled through the "Civil Justice System”.

We strongly urge you to obtain the representation of a Civil law attorney in your jurisdiction or county to advise you in the matter of child custody in the state of Massachusetts. If you can not afford to hire a private civil attorney, please seek help through Massachusetts Legal Aid Website [1]. The mission of the Massachusetts Legal Aid Website Project is to improve access to justice for low-income and disadvantaged persons in Massachusetts through the use of the web and other technologies. Type in your zip code for information on legal assistance in your area.

For secure, confidential, free assistance for you and your child in dealing with the sexual assault and abuse crimes, please contact
RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline. There are two ways to get in touch with an adisor. They may also be able to assist you with finding legal representation.

• By telephone 1800-656-HOPE (4673)
• By secure IM (live instant message hotline) talk with an advisor live over the internet.
  http://apps.rainn.org/ohl-bridge/ [2]