Your Opinion: If a male student under age 18 has consensual sex with a female school teacher, is he the "Victim" of a crime?

No
36% (6749 votes)
Yes
29% (5362 votes)
No. It's ridiculous to say the guy is a "Victim"
22% (4183 votes)
Yes, but not as serious as for female victims.
6% (1046 votes)
I'm not sure.
7% (1335 votes)
Total votes: 18675
Submitted by Ashley (not verified) on Tue, 08/21/2012 - 12:59.

Hey guys, i have a question i really need to be answered. Okay so im Only 13 turning 14 in a few months, and i have been dating this 17 year old for about 5 months. If we Havnt Had sex Yet, and all we did was kiss,hug, and hold hands, could he get into trouble with the law if my dad trys to press charges? I really love him to death and i dont want anything to happen to him. we planned to break up before he turned 18 because we knew it was illigal. please help me. thanks.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 08/11/2012 - 22:11.

Ok. So my friend is 18 and he really loves me... but we had broke up for about two weeks and he went over to another girls house and they got naked and all dat stuff.... i had just gotten over him breaking up w/me (im 15) and he txted me out of the blue 'im so sorry. I didn't mean to do it. I still love you so much... i feel a tho i cheated on you... plz dont hate me. But i went over to a friends house and we basically just bout had sex'.... her parents wernt home...and there were no adults around!!!! Idk wether to call him a creeper or do all i can to help him.... i still love him... but i need to kno wht to do... he also told me tht he had cried himself to sleep tht night because he felt as tho he had cheated on me... Wht do i do?? Im scared for him... im scared tht he'll be told by da girl dat he's prob gona be a father... im just scared all together... plz help me... and plz help the boy i love...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 08/22/2012 - 16:18.

dont feel bad for him if after only 2 weeks he went and slept with someone else then he obviously didnt care, anyone who truely loved you never would have hurt you like that!!!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 02:39.

You shouldn't try to help him. If after you broke up, he went straight to another girls house..only in a matter of two weeks. That's ridiculous and you deserve better.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 14:35.

I am 17 and am wondering if there are any charges in the state of alaska for talking and calling eachother babe when they are 14?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 07/24/2012 - 14:43.

23 year old male/16 year old female what is the legality/consequences if any,of sexual contact between the two?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 08/13/2012 - 02:41.

He could be sent to prison.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 00:50.

i think i am pregnant.I am 15 in a half and turn 16 in 2 months and my boyfriend is 16 already and will turn 17 next year. my dad told me that the any guy can go to jail if they get a girl pregnant no matter what age. Please tell me if its true and i just need some answers please. i live in Lousiania by the way.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 08/18/2012 - 04:58.

Look it up online if he this is not true if your 15 and say a guy was 16 he wouldn't go to jail you are the same age dang don't u watch teen mom?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 06/28/2012 - 04:58.

Hi,
I am 16 years old and I really like this guy. He is 21 and he likes me too. I am from Connecticut and the age of consent here is 16, so would I be able to date him seeing as I am 16?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 06/28/2012 - 04:10.

So I know this Guy who's the funniest and the nicest person ever. We've been talking about getting together when I move to LA because right now I live in europe. He's 25 and I'm 15 and he knows that but he still wants me. I KNOW he's not a creep och perv because I just know that. I don't want to tell you his name but he's a quite famous comedian.
What should I do? And if we have a sexual relationship, what are the consequences?
Please help me!!

Submitted by Louise (not verified) on Wed, 06/27/2012 - 17:08.

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 23... We live in LA and we've been keeping our relationship as a secret to avoid the consequences...
I'm wondering if it's illegal for us to have a sexual relationship since I'm not 18 and if it is, what is the consequences? What do you think we should do?
I hope you don't say we should break up because we've been together since I was 14 and I do love him. I know he loves me because he does everything for me and he's always here when I need him. He's so funny and he always makes me laugh. I don't want to leave him or wait til I'm 18, he says he can wait but I can't... What should I do?? I have only told my sister about this and she thinks I'm out of My mind for being with someone that's 8 years older than me but she do respect that.
Once again, what can I do and is it really illegal??

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 06/19/2012 - 10:56.

I'm 19 an this 17 year old wants to be wiff me can I get introuble

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 06/16/2012 - 22:19.

My dad got a restraining order against a 19 year old guy friend and im a girl, im wondering if that by the time im 16 will the restraining order be gone?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 06/04/2012 - 23:25.

Okay, so my boyfriend turned 18 on december and I turned 17 on december as well. We have been dating for almost two years but I just recently found out that I'm pregnant. I know that my family will try to press charges against him when they find out. I really love him and I don't want him going to jail. So will he get in trouble for this? We want to live together so will it be possible to move in together or will I have to wait until I turn 18?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 08/22/2012 - 16:26.

regarding the sexual inter course, because you two are only a yr apart he can not legaly get into trouble but your parents can put a restraining order against him, and without your parents consent you can not move in together until the day you turn 18

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/29/2012 - 23:02.

So my 17 year old boyfriend wnts to have sex but I'm scared because if I end up pregnant my parents can press charges and I really love him. So if I got pregnant by him and my parents didn't press charges can he still get in trouble by cops??

Submitted by Twiggy (not verified) on Mon, 06/18/2012 - 16:09.

Sweetie he will get in trouble. You are so young. I gave up my v.card at sixteen and I was too young imo looking in retrospect now that I'm 23.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 14:53.

wtf, your 13. wtf.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 04/23/2012 - 20:47.

I misread the question. Yes, he is a victim of abuse. It is statutory rape, and worse, it is an abuse of power.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 04/22/2012 - 19:15.

I'm 16 and the guy I like is 21. Is it illegal for us to have a relationship or even be friends ? My parents say there going to press charges and all we are is FRIENDS.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 07/09/2012 - 19:12.

Shouldn't be illegal as long as you don't have sexual contact.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 07/09/2012 - 14:15.

No, it is not illegal for you guys to date, but he should stay away from any form of sexual contact with you, until your of consensual age....I met my wife when I was 22, she was 13, we had a completely non-sexual relationship until she was of age, we have three children and have been married for 20 yrs. Wait.....We married a week after she graduated....

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 04/15/2012 - 14:25.

my boyfriend is 17 and im about to be 15 in one week and we had sex then can my boyfriend go to jail if both our parents are okay with it? and if so, what would he be charged with?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 06/11/2012 - 09:30.

Statuary Rape/Underage Sex it doesn't matter if your parents are ok min. 20 years max life/death sentence

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 04/08/2012 - 07:26.

Is it legal for a 18 yr old girl to have sex with a younger boy who is emancipated?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 22:59.

It's not illegal due to the fact he is emancipated

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 23:19.

haha ok i like to look up random thing and rape came into mind because lil gay boys at my school try to rape me so i pute rape and im 13 so i put rape and 13 and this came up why am i interesten in peoples lives howd everyone else get here

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/26/2012 - 11:17.

Ok so I'm a guy in FL im 16 and in totally in love with my boyfriend that's 21 but I want the sex so I don't want my friendship ruined so fuck or wait? ( please say fuck. I really like him

Rainbow power

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 03/21/2012 - 18:35.

I'm 14 i turn 15 in June. My boyfriend is 18 and turns 19 in August.. I love my boyfriend. Me and him have already had sex and we are dating and have been for a while. I got in trouble and the police got involved and my sister was talking to the cop about my 18 year old boyfriend (she hates me so so so much) I don't want him to get in trouble.. im scared.. i think about it everyday.. I love him more than anything and i could never live with my self if i got him in trouble and sent him to jail.. But i also love him soo much it'd be soo hard to break up with him over this.. But i will if i have too... ))': I don't know what to do tho.. i need someone to tell me what could happen to him.. What would happen if the cops got involved..? Someone please answer sooon! I've thought about this every single night since me and him got together. I live in Milwaukie Oregon if that would make a difference. .

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