I think most parents, as I am one, feel that teenagers are not responsible enough to handle and deal with the emotions that come with having sex. I grew up in a very strict christian home. So strict that after I moved back home, as I was going through a divorce, my parents wouldn't allow the guy I was seeing to sleep in the same room until we married. And I was an adult. My family never spoke about sex until they thought I was involved with a guy. I was 19 when I ended up pregnant. I quickly got married two month before my daughter was born. 20 years old, not even old enough to have Champlain on my wedding day, nor could I have it since I was about to be a mother. Over the last ten years I realized that I missed out on so much "growing up" because I had to become an adult faster in order to raise a daughter.
As a parent I don't want to see that happen to my daughter. I want her to be able to enjoy life, to be "stupid" and learn as she grows. In order to do that she needs to under stand having sex can and will change that. Sex is a gift one give to another. It should not be just for the simple feeling. My husband and I have an amazing time in bed. Not just because it feels good but the emotions that are attached are genuine and that is what sex is about. A "kid" can not handle those feelings and do not understand them. That is why parents try and stop you from having sex. We don't want you to become ill from a STD or having to give up the fun of being young because to have to care for a new life. Please refrain from sex until you are old enough to truly appreciate it.