I've been in the same situation. I went to a camp over summer ad my councilor and I just hit it off. In the end he gave me his number and we talked for a long time. He goes to college in charelston as I stayed in Washington. But then we both took a vacation to Reno and he wanted to go back into his suite and make love. Since I was only 16, I knew I just wasn't ready. I said no and walked away. We lost touch. I'm glad I didn't have sex with him because not only would that be totally illegal, I was scared. I never thought I would be so unsure of myself with him. But on that night, I knew all he wanted was sex. And I was right because he lost touch with me after I denied his request.