minor aged boyfriend

California

I have a friend who is 21 years old and is dating a 17 year old. there has been speculation that people could turn her in, even though the 17 year olds parents know the circumstances. is she at risk? what would be an outcome to this?

The law makers in California have made it unusually simple and clear from a researchers perspecitve.

Under statute 261.5 a male or female under the age of 18 is not legally capable of consenting to sexual intercourse or oral sexual activity. This would apply to all relationships whether the adult is male or female if the minor is under 18. It also applies to homosexual relationships.

The 21 year old is at risk of being found in violation of 261.5 Unlawful sexual intercouse with a minor. According to the statute, if convicted, she could face civil penalties from $2000 to $25,000 and possible jail time.


Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 08/17/2012 - 11:33.

My son will be turning 18 soon. He has been with this girl for over a year. Her parents approve of them dating. I have informed my son it is illegal for him to have sex with her once he turns 18, but given the history of the girl's character, I'm afraid she may try to file charges later should they break up. I am in the process of obtaining written consent from her parents that state they allow for their daughter to date my son. Is this something that could help us later if we were to end up in court? If they consent to their minor daughter to have sex with my son once he turns 18? Can they give consent?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 03/02/2012 - 12:21.

There is a 17 year old girl who got pregnant by a 21 year old male. She will be 18 in one month, but is 1 month pregnant. She is in California foster care, and her probation officer and social worker both filed reports. What is the probability that the male with be prosecuted in front of a judge? Even with the economy and everyone they are letting out of jail?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 10/22/2011 - 19:22.

is it against the law for a 16 year old to date a 19 year old and have sexual intercourse !!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 10:20.

My son is 17 and his ex-girlfriend is 18. She is currently pregnant. What is my son's future responsibility as it relates to child support if she decided to have this child? I was not aware of the relationship and did not give any consent for them to date or to be involved in a sexual relationship. I'm wondering if it would be prudent to file charges (we live in California) against her as well.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 08/31/2011 - 09:40.

k so i know this couple and she is 21 and her boyfriend is 16 and i think they are having sex and now one of the family members of the boyfriend are saying they want press charges, but the parent consent to them being together. what could happen to her and the parents legal?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 07/24/2011 - 05:23.

My boyfreind had sex with girl 17 years old almost 18 he currently
21 with her consent her mom had knowledge if this having sex in her pass Agregame got pregnant has 2 year daughter from pass relationship with another guy she is pregnant again claiming the My boyfreind father he is Does not know if the baby is bis.currently had sex Agregame had misscarriage from.other relation My boyfreind convicted

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 07/08/2011 - 12:17.

is it possible to date an 18 year old when you are 15 going on 16?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 17:50.

I'm trying to do some research on this but am getting mixed info. Iv geared a minor having sexual relations of any kind w an adult is illegal but I'm also reading grey areas that are really confusing. Iv read that the age if consent in California is 17 so does that mean its ok? I'm really confused and don't want to do anything stupid.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 12/05/2010 - 12:41.

my girlfriend of 21yrs just left me she's also pregnant with my child and im only 17 my mother is not ok with us being together which is why she left me,but now she said she don't want to let me in my childs life when it's born what can i do about this how much trouble will she get into?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 10/13/2010 - 00:08.

is it possible for a 15 year old going on 16 date an 18 year old ?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/31/2010 - 12:04.

my 18 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant again by her 15 year old boyfriend after a miscarriage last month.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 01/19/2010 - 13:49.

My daughter is 17 and will be graduating from high school in June. She wants to date a 24 year old male, who in all fairness is responsible (in college and holds a good job)and well mannered. They are not having sex and do not intend on that being a part of their relationship. As long as they are not having sexual relations are there and legal issues to be concerned about?

Submitted by dunsailn on Fri, 01/22/2010 - 07:01.

There is no law that prohibits a 24 year old from dating a 17 year old where there is no sexual contact. If a 24 year old is engaged in a sexual relationship with a 17 year old, given the age difference, it could lead to serious criminal legal problems for the 24 year old male.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 10/27/2009 - 12:02.

Is it legal for a 17 year old female to live with a 49 year old male, and sleep in seperate rooms, if parental consent is given and both claim that no sexual activity is occuring?

Submitted by concerned (not verified) on Fri, 09/04/2009 - 17:33.

24 year old male having consensual sexual activity with 14 year old female. Mother of female has known about the age of the Male and allows her daughter to continue with this relationship. All parties involved have been lying to the females' step-father, telling him that the boy was only 18 years old. Mother of male filed government aid papers claiming female was living in her house (untrue)in a relationship with her son and created an additional burden, thereby she was requesting additional aid from the county, state , and federal governments. Last week, the house of my friend (the unknowing father of the female)was raided by the local PD, Sheriff, and social services. They were concerned that documents were filed stating a 24yr old was in a live-in relationship with a 14 year old. They went to the address of the loady who filed the papers, but no one was home, so they went to the "last known address" of the female (where she actually currently lives) to seek out more information. My friend is furious that both his step-daughter and wife were lying to him, furious at the 24 year old male and wants to press charges, but is concerned his wife would then be in some sort of legal trouble because she consented to the relationship. What are the legal ramifications of both the male, mother of the male, and mother of the female if charges are instigated?

Submitted by dunsailn on Mon, 09/07/2009 - 08:11.

First and foremost, it would be advisable that you seek professional legal council on this matter from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

The main focus of an investigation in a situation like this would usually be on the 24 year old who is having sexual relations with a 14 year old. The 14 year old would be considered the "victim" and the main focus would be her protection.

According to the San Mateo deputy DA, it would be very rare that the parent of a teenager would be prosecuted for a crime in a situation like this; however; if the parent was found to have contributed significantly to the PC 261.5 crime, to the point where their conduct could be deemed aiding and abetting, it is possible that they could be charged with a violation of PC 261.5.

Another alternative for the DA is a misdemeanor charge of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, pursuant to Penal Code section 272.

In situations like this, the parents actions are most often not "criminal" and not looked upon by the DA as "criminal" unless there is proof of neglect, abuse, or proof that the parent condoned the activity to perpetuate other criminal activities such as fraud, prostitution, trafficking, drug use, etc...

Anyone can file a complaint with police against the 24 year old; parents, step parents, neighbors, friends, relatives etc... it is the District Attorney who ultimately determines if there is a criminal case and whether criminal charges will be filed.

From your description, it sounds as though the DA has already opened an investigation to determine if the 14 year old is a victim of a crime. The ball is already be in motion. Again, it would be highly advisable that you seek the advice of an attorney in your jurisdiction.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 06/27/2009 - 13:47.

What will happen if a 20 year old female with a 16 year old male. Parents consented and do not have a problem with it. They all are happy.. It is a mexican heritge. Is she and/or the parents at risk?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 04/24/2009 - 07:41.

a 16 year old has 2 kids by a 20 yr old first kid is 2 2nd kid is 7 months now theres a private invistigator looking at their case saying he is going to jail and they are taking the kids away from her what can the outcome be to this

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 12/26/2008 - 20:08.

Can a 14 year old date a 19 year old legally without any sexual activity.

Submitted by dunsailn on Sun, 12/28/2008 - 09:09.

A person age 18 (legal adult) or older may date a minor (under the age of 18) legally when no sexual contact takes place. It is important that the minor's parents have full knowledge and give consent for the 14 year old to date the 19 year old. If the parents do not give consent, the 19 year old may be subject to legal action should the parents feel motivated to prevent contact with their minor child. The parents have legal authority over the minor and may take legal action on behalf of their minor child whether the minor child agrees or not.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/05/2008 - 23:39.

Is it illegal for a 14 year old girl to be dating a 19 year old male. And can we put a restraining order against him?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 04/03/2009 - 11:34.

Yes it is illegal and depending on the states' laws, you can put a restraining order. I suggest you contact the local authorities for more information.

Submitted by dunsailn on Wed, 10/08/2008 - 06:19.

In general, the parents or legal guardians of a 14 year old minor child have legal authority and accountability to protect and maintain control of their child's activities. If the parents feel their child is at risk, it would be prudent to contact an attorney or contact your local authorities, District Attorney or the court clerk for information on actions that may or may not be taken legally. In California, an adult is in violation of the California penal code 261.5 if engaged in sexual intercourse with a minor. All regions, counties and cities have different procedures and policies regarding restraining orders.

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