Im 27 years old is illegal to date with a girl 17yrs and be boyfriends may i get charges for this of course im'not looking sex with her.....

In the state of California, it is illegal to have sexual intercourse with a minor under the age of 18.

Dating without sexual intercourse is NOT illegal; however, there are inherant legal risks when an adult has a "dating" relationship with a minor without the parents knowledge. It can become a troublesome matter if the parents object to the "dating" relationship. Parents can take legal action to prevent the relationship and if the adult does not comply, the adult can be arrested for a violation.