age 20 male in sexual relationship with age 17 female


if i am 20 is it ok for me to have sex with my 17 year old girlfriend?

This would be unlawful sexual intercourse in the state of California. See "Unlawful Sexual Intercourse" Section 261.5 California Penal code.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 05/02/2012 - 15:14.

My neighbor in MO, started seeing a 16 year old she turned 21 in September while he turned 17 in July she's 21 and he just now turned 18 and at 17 she got knocked up by this guy, is that leagal ? Now they are getting married this weekend, can't she still be charged with crimes for having sex with a 17 year old even if he is jus now legal?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 19:58.

I'm a 21 yr female I'll b 22 April 3 n my bf is 17 will b 18 September 29 would I get n trouble r no we live n San Antonio

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 05:55.

My bohfriend is 21 im 16, we have been together a little over a year now. I am a full AP student 4.85 GPA he goes to college, has A's as well, and works to pay his expenses and help his parents. My point is were not idiots whom are passing down then irresponsible gene. We are sexually active and my parents are fine with that. If parental concent is harm is caused to myself, he is a very good and caring man and there are absolutely no conditions, except our 5year age gap, which appearantly is concidered such a big deal...why is it not okay to be intimate with a man whom I may just be moving in with in a few months.? Plus..the CA statutory rape laws are to prevent pregmancy expenses..not prevent sexual assult. Right??? I read that in the faq and im more than willing to accept any circumstance. Also..if we were to marry, because we have considered it, would everything be legal?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 11/03/2011 - 09:15.

My brother just turned 21 and he is having sex with a 16 year old her parents do not know. Can he get in trouble? We live in Kentucky. Please help

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 10/25/2011 - 14:18.

Hi. Im a 20 year old girl whos dating a guy about 18 like in 2 moths. Aparently im older than him for like 2 years and 10 months. His mom was ok with me and him dating till she change her mind and started threating me with a restraining oder. Is there a posibility I can still get in trouble?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 10/20/2011 - 02:18.

He has permission from her parents to date her and they know that they are sexually active but hes still worried if its legal

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/16/2011 - 16:26.

if i am 15 in the state of kentucky and i am dating a 20 year old. if i turn 16 and decide to have sexual intercourse with him, will he get into trouble sinse the age of consent is 16 in my state?or would he get into trouble if anybody pressed charges?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/16/2011 - 15:37.

okay i am 16 and ive been dating a 20 year old for about a year, we are not sexually active but my family hates him. and my mom is threatening to press charges on him because she doesnt believe me when i tell her that we arnt. what will happen to him if she does press charges? but we are thinking of taking it to the next level but im not sure about the age laws in kentucky. can anyone tell me?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 23:53.

i am 17 years old girl and i love a man who is older than me
i fell in love with a man who is my parent want to give trouble to him because of his parents
he also love me a lot. i want to live with him but i don't want him to get in trouble
he is 30 years old guy who look like the same age with me.
So what should i do
it is possible to marriage without my parent approval or can i live with him without any sexual relationship? I just want to live beside him and talk with him.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 09/15/2011 - 11:48.

We both live in Kentucky and we both really like each other and he's gonna be 17 in march and i'm gonna be 21 is it ok for us too even have sex or kissing each other?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 08/06/2011 - 23:36.

I am 22 and would be starting a relationship with a 17 yr old who will turn 18 in 4 months. Besides oral sex and vaginal intercourse, will there be any "other" restrictions until then?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 07/29/2011 - 04:03.

I'm 16 and 5 months pregnant my boyfriend is 6 years older than me. My parents do not want him to go to jail because they want him to be there for me and the child. His parents know about us being together too. Is that illegal? I live in California

Submitted by amy D (not verified) on Tue, 07/12/2011 - 13:03.

i'm 17 and will be 18 in 3 months i am sleeping with a man that is 24 and will be 25 next mounth, can my parents throw him in jail? i live in arkansas...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 06/13/2011 - 01:41.

My friend is 21 and is going to be 22 July 17th his girlfriend is 17 and is turning 18 in 4 weeks July 4th. What are the issues with this? What are the Statued Of limitations on this? what are the laws on this?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 04/26/2011 - 14:13.

yes i am doing this for a friend her boyfriend is 24 and when she was 16 she sent him picture of her self we live in texas and now she turned 17 and her mom dont want her to move out so she said she will get him in trouble can she please help

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/07/2011 - 00:09.

ok am turning 20 in 4/30 an my gf is turnin 18 on 6/18 can i get in trouble if were not having sex?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 22:50.

i am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 17 if we was to have sex with her parents concent can i still get in trouble in kentucky

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 10/12/2011 - 17:26.

No in the state of KY the age of consent is 16 and you do not need prential consent.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 01/15/2011 - 19:06.

My boyfriend is about to turn 22 in may and I won't turn 18 until September. My mom is trying to press charges on him but we live in Kentucky and the age of consent law is 16. We are sexually active . Can she press charges on him & get him in trouble!?

Submitted by Poisonouschimp (not verified) on Sun, 12/26/2010 - 17:19.

Understanding the 3 year age gap and unlawful consent rape laws, I am curious if you can legally engage in sex if the minor was to sign a waiver saying it was ok. Something like I name, fully understand that I am a minor and my partner is a legal adult. I fully concent to engage in sexual intercourse and waive my right to file any legal action against him and am viewing myself as an adult. I also fully understand the negitive side effects associated with sexual intercourse.

Would something like that work or is the law just black and white and there is no way around it?

Submitted by dunsailn on Mon, 12/27/2010 - 08:12.

Multiple problems with this idea. I will point out two.

First; a contract with a minor is generally not legally binding.

Second; this is not a matter of civil law, it is a matter of criminal law. A minor, or a parent, or a person, does not press criminal charges against another person, the State or Federal government prosecutors press charges for violations of state and federal laws when there is evidence supporting the charge.

A waiver will not protect someone from prosecution when a state or federal law has been violated.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 08/15/2010 - 22:27.

I'm 17 years old and I've been talking to this guy who's 22, 5 year age difference, since before he was 18, but we never wanted him to get in trouble, so we were never dating. I want to know if we were in a relationship, but not having sexual intercourse, could he still get into trouble? And how would they prove we were sexually involved, if we were?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 07/20/2010 - 17:57.

My boyfriend is 23 and he lives in California, but I live in Colorado. I'm 14 and I'm going to be 15 on October 8th. He's going to turn 24 on September 11th. We are not sexually active. Can he get in trouble? Please tell me soon! Thanks!

Submitted by Kassie (not verified) on Fri, 12/10/2010 - 07:33.

no he can not get into trouble if your not haveing sex or having any sexual contact

Submitted by Lette (not verified) on Wed, 05/26/2010 - 09:34.

I have been going out with a 21 year old male, and I'm going to be 18 in 6 months, what is the legal rules and regulations that we have to follow? If i got emancipated would it be legal to have intercourse, or would it still be unlawful? Since we are having a platonic relationship dose anyone have the right to say we cant be together?

Submitted by nana09 (not verified) on Wed, 04/07/2010 - 18:32.

my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs but when we just started having sex I barely turned 15 and he was a couple of months from being 18 my parents never knew but they didn't want me being with parents made his parents sign an agreement for no contact with me at all after they found him in my room. I'm still dating him and still having sex.i also still bring him into my house!! He is now 20 and I just turned 17 a couple weeks ago.What can happen to him if my parents were to report him?

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 08/15/2010 - 23:33.

If your not having sex your fine they can't do anything even if they call the cops I'm going threw the same thing right now my whole family hates him and won't let me see him they have cops at my high school to make sure he doesn't come see me there I'm 16 now and he 20 going on 21 I'm waiting until I'm 17 then leaving to be with him

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 07/09/2010 - 09:07.

If I'm your parent you wouldn't be getting even close to that guy. Don't you know why guys over 18 are looking for dates under 16? Because no one their age would date them! Only scum guys try to get younger dates at this age. Think about it... Do you have anything to talk about? Or you just ride in his car and go have sex somewhere? Does he take you out at all? You will grow up and see my point, I'm sure. But such things shouldn't happen. Do you know how old you need to be to register for a dating website? As soon as you can do that, you can go around date whoever you want.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/15/2011 - 08:22.

I disagree i may be underage but im mature and know a little bit about that kind of relationship and hats off to those who can find someone there age who can truely love them but its been over a year and hes not a scumbag so u should chill on that comment pretty unreasonable and unnaccurate

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 01/26/2010 - 17:25.

im a 20 year old male with a 16 year old girlfriend we have a 4 month old daughter and her mom is just now trying to keep me away from my daughter and girlfriend i know she can keep me from my girlfriend but can she keep me from my daughter and can i still get in trouble???

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